Everywhere you turn you see compelling quotes, articles and images encouraging you to love yourself more. It seems to be the answer to so many of our issues and challenges yet I can’t seem to help but wonder…
Do you love yourself more?
Have you learned how to move closer to that place of pure acceptance and love for your divine and beautiful self? Have you stopped beating yourself up? Judging yourself and wondering if you will ever be ‘good enough?’
Or are you simply clicking like on posts about self-love, knowing deep within your heart that it is a game changer, but still, you are not quite sure how to get there?
Don’t worry Darling – you are not alone!
There is some really valuable content out there; however, the problem is you have to sort through so much ‘self-love lite’ to get to it.
There is a big difference between ‘filing your tank’ and actually ‘fixing the tank,’ so that the self-nurturing you do actually provides sustainable results, getting you closer to actually loving yourself.
‘Filing the tank’ looks something like this – treat yourself to a bubble bath, read a fiction novel to escape for a few hours, grab your girlfriends and head out to the spa. For men it might be hitting the links, catching a game or tinkering with the car.
Now I am not saying that these are not great things to do – because they are. They help ‘fill your tank’ for sure. But if you are going to get to the heart of self-love…
First, you need to ‘fix the tank!’
Otherwise these loving acts will make you feel good for a brief moment in time, but not result in true self-acceptance.
‘Fixing the tank’ is a deeper discovery process where you identify the root causes of why you do not love yourself unconditionally and where those patterns began.
Once you create that awareness you can begin an immediate healing process and literally change your life. How do I know? Because after years of searching and hoping for real love in my life, I discovered the real secret to creating the love I desired.
And once I did, the transformation happened quickly.
I even reunited with the love of my life and we began to create our happily ever after.
Because this discovery had such a powerful impact on my life I was inspired to share it with others. That is why I created Unlocking Love – The Short Course. I wanted to share what I learned after years of seeking, which as soon as I applied got me the results I desired.
So the choice is up to you. Are you going to keep trying to ‘fill your tank’ and hope to see a difference or are you going to commit to real change by ‘fixing your tank’ so you too can start creating your happily ever after?
Let’s get you started today! Learn more here.